I have this girlfriend of mine whom I usually talk to about the future. You know, things like getting married and all. She's 2 years my senior. She's at the age where she would like to settle down and all. But she is not the sort who would rush into things just for the sake of getting married and all, d'ya know what I mean? It's like some people can just rush into a relationship for the sake of being able to hold on to someone. That's kinda sick.
Anyways, back to that friend of mine. She was on a blind date today with a guy whom a long-time friend of hers introduced quite recently. I heard it went pretty okay. She was comfortable enough to be herself and NOT act all giggly or anything. But now, she is getting worried. All worried that she might rush into things, might make the wrong decisions about not wanting to stick to one blah blah blah.
All I need to say to that friend of mine ( you know who you are). There really is nothing to worry. Insya ALLAH everything will be alright. You made the right decision of not wanting to commit just yet. You are NOT being a *ITCH by wanting to still be on the lookout for other opportunities. You are still young, dear. Insya ALLAH. When the time is right, Mr HE will come knocking on your door- when you least expect it.
Anyways, please tell the guy to take it one step at a time. The one way to scare someone whom you have JUST known is to talk about marriage. I mean, he has just known you for what, 2 days?!?!?! Releks lah...I mean, we are not living in the olden era where women need to get married at such a young age and make tonnes of babies. We need to get to know the guy and be comfortable with him first before talking about the M word. BUT - if he is a bloody good-looking guy with a bloody fit bod, WOO HOO! he can just propose even after only 5 hours of knowing moi! We can perform CPR on each other - WOO HOO!! 1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and 5 and WOO HOO!