It does not matter how slowly you go just as long as you do not stop

I feel like I cannot talk about it to anyone because I do not want to bore them with the same worry that I have been having.

But..I am upset - especially watching Channel 70 (Discovery Channel Home & Health) tonight.

But throughout my life, the two common lessons that I have learnt was to be patient and surrender to HIM - ALWAYS!

Whether or not I like it at that point of time, I will have to be patient and surrender to HIM for HE knows best.

But it is hard, you know.

It's hard when you want something so bad and tried so hard but things don't seem to go your way.

Breathe in, breathe out.

HE knows best.

Insya ALLAH - that time will come. Insya ALLAH.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Give it a rest already.

Okay, so I bet you've heard.

About that girl/tranny who was molested at the Siloso Beach Countdown Party last December.

To my opinion, we should not be trying to find out the girl's REAL gender or nationality.

The question we should all be asking her is, "Were you enjoying it the whole time it took place?"

Next question (assuming that her reply is "No."), "Why didn't you shout for help when the molestation was happening? Why did you stay and allowed those perverts to grope you all over?"

Personally, she looked like she enjoyed the whole thing.

Even if she was drunk, she could still feel those (hairy, sweaty. Eurgh!) hands on her skin and she should have shoved them off immediately and shouted for help.

If she did those things, I believe that those men (or women) who were filming her would be more than happy to come to her rescue.

But she did nothing to show to the on-lookers that she needed to be rescued!

Anyhow, I seriously can't believe that someone created a Facebook account to defend her!

Oh gosh!

Why defend something that is not being treasured?

From the video, the girl in question clearly did not respect herself enough to dress properly and quickly move away from those perverts.

So why are we defending her right to be given some help when she doesn't want to be rescued?

Well, she didn't act like she needed any help, at least.

The girl need to get more clothes and stop acting like a tramp if she doesn't want to be treated like one.

Acting in that manner only showed men how little respect she has for herself.

It was also a disgrace to woman all over because the molestors probably think that all ladies in bikini like to be groped like that and that they can go around molesting others just because that one lady allowed them to.

Those molestors need to be jailed - for life. The fact that they took advantage of the situation is just disgusting.

Their pictures should be pasted all over the island and whoever spot the perverts should whack them half to death.

Even then, I think it's not enough to compensate for treating a woman (or a he-she) that way - eventhough she (or he-she) was asking for it.

Anyhow, I've said my 2-cents.

I just pray that nothing of the sort happen to me or any ladies I know (or do not know).

Na'uzubillah.

By the way, just click on the following links to find out what other Singaporeans said on RazorTV.com

You might just spot some familiar faces.

What would you do? (Molested girl part 2)
What would you do? (Molested girl part 3)

Saturday, January 09, 2010

Wish you were here.

I remember telling a girlfriend that I would never, ever (ever!) date (much less marry!) a man who works shift hours.

My girlfriend warned me to not be too sure but I just brushed her off by saying that I would know better.

Yeah right!

Despite my constant whinings (I hate his night shift!! I can't say that enough), I am still grateful.

Grateful that MyBudakTapai has a stable job.

Maybe the working hours can be better but at least, we have a stable income, yeah?

I mean, there are families who are experiencing financial problems due to unemployability but we are fortunate.

We are both working and earning more than enough.

Alhamdullillah.

Yeah, I may sound a little weird - one minute I'm complaining about his night shift, the next I am all grateful.

Well, what do you expect?

I'm human!

And..I'm a woman. Heh..

Just let me rant and the world is good again.

Monday, December 28, 2009

Anak Melayu rock da house!

I am super duper proud of Sezairi Sezali!

I also know that a lot of people are unhappy with the results.

All I can say to them is well, accept reality!

So what if another anak Melayu has won the title?

What matters now is what the top 2 contestants do to market themselves.

Sezairi may be the winner but if he is not going to work hard enough, he will be yesterday's news.

I truly admire Sylvia's confidence and how positive she is about the whole thing.

That is the spirit!

Good on yer, Sylvia!

If I were Sezairi, I would just shut out all the cynics with their crap talk.

Focus on improving yourself and showing the haters that YOU CAN MAKE IT BIG!

Thousands of voters believed in you, why shouldn't you believe in yourself?

By the way, kekawanku, who did you vote for?

Monday, December 21, 2009

No One is Perfect & I'm No One.

I am loving living in OUR own home with OUR rules and ideas.

However, the cleaning never seem to end.

Now, I can truly understand what Mak meant when she said that household chores will never end.

We will always end up doing some kind of cleaning on days we initially decide to chill on the sofa.

But I thank ALLAH for MyBudakTapai for his help.

I am thankful for the chores are being shared equally and willingly.

I grew up in a household where women do all the chores while men go out to work - very traditional.

Though I would love to fulfill my tai-tai ambitions, I love working (Can't believe I typed this and mean it) because I feel that it works my brain and intelligence.

MyBudakTapai has been more than willing to share the chores.

Alhamdullillah.

I am not complaining though I am tired.

Quite frankly, I am pretty happy to clean my house.

From Discover My space...

Positive thinking - Traditional.

Just to spice things up, maybe I should try dressing differently when doing housework.

From Discover My space...

Perfect Housewife - FantasyHehe..

Woah! One way to get the neighbours smiling, yes? Definitely my husband too! Heh..

From Discover My space...

The real deal - Reality check!

Earth to Lizzy!

A little fantasy is fun but we still need to get back to reality.

Friday, December 18, 2009

In Transit

It took a year and half of planning and it's finally here.

Not referring to the wedding, that's over and done with.

It's the honeymoon!

Fancy blogging while MyBudakTapai windowshop at the DFS shops!

Woo hoo!

Anyhow, from this point on, ~~the point of no return~~ all worries aside.

It's the time to chill ~~and make love~~.

Take care guys!

Kekawanku, ada nak kirim? Heheheh...

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Forget the difference.

Now I know the reason why I hate taking cabs.

Nonetheless, Uncle Cabbie halalkan the $1.40 that I owed him.

How often can you be faced with such kindness in this materialistic world of ours?

Not very, probably never.

Alhamdullillah.

I truly feel blessed.

Uplifters

To love deeply in one direction makes us more loving in all others